Model Check – Does the Result Look Like The Result?


Hi,

I wonder if you could check this model for me, I am a school leader and want to process some of my judgements I have made in relation to a parent of a child at my school.

C: Mother can’t make a meeting about her child as she is working
T: What a terrible mum
F: Sadness (for child)
A: Complain about the fact that she can’t attend the meeting
R: Feel guilty for judging her which compounds my guilt about being a terrible (working) mother

I would love your help with this model! I have changed the T intentionally.
My T: Is now good on ya’ momma for ensuring others can attend the meeting on your family’s behalf.
F: Proud
A: Have good meeting with the family
R: Mum feels positively about the school and is supportive of the work