I’d like some help with these models. I’m struggling to come up with intentional thoughts of how to think about this UM
C: Bf exists exactly as he is
T: he’s not that much into coaching or meditation
F: disappointed
A: get defensive when he disagrees
R: I disappoint myself

C: Bf exists exactly as he is
T:
F: connected
A:
R:

C: Bf exists exactly as he is
T:
F: validated
A:
R:

UM
C: bf said he invited my mom and brother over hoping that then he would be invited over to my brothers house
T: if he’s trying to manage their models then he’s manipulative and I don’t want to date someone who’s manipulative ugh
F: fear
A: pull away, question his behavior, say things to him, look for patterns in him
R: I’m trying to manage his models?