Model for friendships

Hi, I have been getting frustrated with my 12 year old daughter and the back and forth with friends. She had a falling out with her best friend and now the best friend is trying to be friends again and my daughter is being stubborn and keeps telling me she doesn’t want to be friends with her anymore. I’m upset and worries she’s alienating herself and should just make up especially since we are friendly with the parents. But every time I bring it up she gets annoyed and runs away. Am I wrong to want her to just keep the peace?