I have a model that I can’t seem to get a clear result on. Can you tell me where I went off track?

c- my marriage
t- I am having to be so focused in multiple areas of my life and husband is the opposite…basically retired
f- frustrated
a- don’t carve out time for him to try to prove my point that I have so many responsibilities, don’t make him a priority
r- I’m so focused in multiple area of my life, except for with my husband ?????

Thank you for your help