This is the model I’m working on:
C: Husband yelled at son for dropping eggs
T: That was such an inappropriate response
A: Firmly state to husband that it is not okay to yell. Ruminate about this not being the first time that I’ve seen him yell like that. Judge husband about his anger
R: I create tension??
I think that my response to him was appropriately mad at the situation, and I’m really wanting him to change and not yell at our son.
Is this the result that you see from the model?
How can I deal with this situation better?