Hello Coaches. Diving in today looking for your expertise on this model.

C: Niece got Masters degree while raising 3 kids
T: I’m an underachiever/she’s better because she’s more educated
F: inferior
A: question my ambitions, negate my own education/accomplishments, compare, judge myself
R: reinforce my beliefs that people exist on a “betterness” scale

C: Niece got Masters degree while raising 3 kids
T: Kudos to her for wanting, pursuing and achieving her goals
F: impressed
A: congratulate her for her determination and drive, don’t compare myself to her, don’t negate my own success, remind myself those options were also available to me but it wasn’t what I wanted
R: ???

I am getting stuck here with this result.

It was fascinating this came up for me. Never in my life had I ever had the thought “I’d like to get my Masters degree” yet somehow my brain wanted me to be aware of my “ranking”. Thanks in advance.