Can you help me with my model?

C: Empty Nest & moving so I purged kids’ art work
T: A good Mom does not throw away kids’ art
F: Melancholy
A: Ruminate, cry, wonder why I threw them away – questioning myself, arguing for the necessity
R: You are sad about the changes in your life but you are distracting yourself by focusing on the stuff

or is it:
C: Empty Nest & moving so I purged kids’ art work
T: A good Mom does not throw away kids’ art
F: Guilty
A: Ruminate, cry, wonder why I threw them away – questioning myself, arguing for the necessity
R: The guilt is distracting you from the sadness about the changes in your life