Model Help – r line again!

I keep having difficulties with my r-line. Help!

C husband’s pay was reduced by 50%
T we’re going to lose everything
F scared
A focus on all of the items we could lose: house, car, cable, babysitters, 401k in my head. bite nails.
R: I ??

C Husband’s pay cut by 50%
T I don’t want to deal with any of this
F overwhelm
A want to lay down, hide, buffer on phone, do only “easy” tasks in my business, deliver low value to my clients, don’t make a budget, do not use my time efficiently, snap at husband and kids
R: I don’t deal with any of this? (something feels like it’s missing here)