Model on son

I have a client and he wants to feel patience with his son.

Some of his thoughts are.
C Son
T He’s dosen’t use the opportunities that he’s got.
F Frustrated
A In conflict/ argues
R Thinks son misses out
C Son
T I want him to work harder
F Frustrated
A Pushes against son
R ?
C Son
T I never had the opportunity he gets.
F Frustrated
A Lose temper
R Regrets lost opportunity
Im in the reeds with this. In know I’m missing something.

Thanks Brooke