Model question: Inadequancy

For my model, I have:

C – X said, “I don’t want to keep asking you for that report.”
T – I’m failing. I’m not fast enough or on the right timeline. X thinks I’m useless and doesn’t want to work with me.
F – Inadequacy
A – Work harder and faster
R – Get more done

How am I to think about harsh thoughts spurring desirable actions?