Model Question – Relationships – It’s a bit murky

C – Boyfriend does not ask me questions about me or my life, we’ve been dating on and off for a year.
T – I have a very vibrant and interesting life.
F – Undervalued
A- Listen to him, provide safe space for him to process A.A. work, wonder why he doesn’t care enough to ask about what I am doing.
R – Bring up curiosity and thought/feelings awareness with him (in hopes that eventually he’ll “get it”, He doesn’t know me fully…

I know this model is murky. Could you please help me to whittle it down so that I can perhaps do an intentional model and work on some ladder /bridge feelings. Thank you !