Model question: What’s the C?


I’m having trouble with a model. In my thought download, I started with the phrase “I can’t love myself because….” Then I filled in the rest.

Each statement is a thought I’d like to examine,

“I can’t love myself because I didn’t go to an Ivy League college.”
“I can’t love myself because I don’t have enough money.” I had trouble coming up with the C:

C: Woman? Self?
T: I can’t love myself because I don’t have enough money OR I don’t have enough money
F: Inadequate
A: shop and spend money to be more “stylish,” impose extreme budgeting restrictions, judge me, enroll in programs and listen to audiobooks to get rich, don’t feel confident in my ability to make and have money
R: I create an inadequate relationship with money

Not sure about this.