I was wondering if I could have clarity on a model? My boyfriend always seems to run late or take his time when he comes over. It drives me crazy and I know I’m doing this to myself.
C- Aaron is coming over (Can this be a fact?)
T- Aaron is always running late.
F- Frustration
A- Give him annoyed looks when he arrives, tell him I’m waiting for him
R- He arrives late when coming over or to an event.

Could my intentional model look something like this?
C- Aaron is coming over.
T- Aaron is going to take his time coming over and that’s okay.
F- Neutral
A- Welcome him when he arrives
R- Be more understanding of when he arrives.

I’m not sure I really feel great about my intentional model. I still feel like there is room for frustration to creep in.