Hi,

I’m working on these two models. The results don’t seem to line up with my thoughts… But if I write anything else, I don’t think they will be true for me. Can you please help me see how the R lines up with the T?

Unintentional:
C – Sister was molested when we were children
T – I should have known it was happening and stopped it
F – Guilt
A – Overprotect my daughter
R – Not allow daughter to have more independence even though she’s ready to be more independent

Intentional:
C – Sister was molested when we were children
T – I was a child too and couldn’t have known it was happening to her
F – Self acceptance
A – Trust myself as a parent and allow my daughter to be appropriately independent
R – Have a trusting and healthy relationship with daughter