Hello! I need your help please with 2 models I’m working on about gossip. Cousin-S asked me if Cousin-K’s husband had cheated on her. I immediately had lots of thoughts about it because I’m not interested in talking behind Cousin-K’s back about something that isn’t our business. I guess mostly I’m having trouble with the R-lines, and I’m not sure how else to make the models clearer. Would you please take a look:

C – Cousin-S asked: “So, did he cheat on her?”
T – She just wants to be a gossip.
F – Judgmental
A – I close myself off to her questions. I shut it down. I deflect. I judge her as a gossip.
R – ?

C – Cousin-S asked: “So, did he cheat on her?”
T – It’s none of your business.
F – Closed off
A – I shut down the questioning. I make it clear I’m not going to engage.
R – ?

Thanks in advance!