Modelthon Question

Hi! In a VIP Call for Jan, Brooke made reference to coaching a mom who had a daughter addicted to heroin at the modelthon recently. Are you able to give me a brief summary of what her advice was? I have a brother in law doing heroin and my mom in law is devestated. Being a VIP I absolutely understand that we cant control our children, that they are living their own life the way they want to and that wanting a better life for them only causes us pain and suffering. But how can a mom truly be at peace with her child doing heroin? I know we can still have a loving relationship with him (with our thoughts!), but I have kids of my own, and I’m not sure I truly would be able to live the model (like I do in so many other areas) about this. Thank you!