Money and husband thoughts


I’m having some issues around money and my thoughts, and my husband. I really want to believe, and I really want my husband and me to have the same thoughts about money and investing/saving/spending. I know we can’t really – but I really wish we did.

Unintional model
C: We have a joint bank account
T: My husband and I don’t have similar beliefs and thoughts about money
F: Unsettling feeling / anxious
A: Avoiding talking about money with him
R: Continue to believe that we aren’t on the same page

Intentional model
C: We have a joint bank account
T: We have similar goals for our money
F: Happy / confident
A: Talk about money and save together and give together
R: Happy marriage