My parents are staying with us for the next few days.
It’s been good because I’ve made new decision about what our relationship is and what I decide to feel. There has been none of the usual drama.
So the problem is that the way they think and talk about my brother is very distructive. My brother harbours a lot of anger and resentment towards my parents and they see him as a failure and a loser. Both parties keep talking to me about how they feel.