My big goal is to get into a happy loving relationship

My big goal is to get into a loving happy relationship. Brooke said how we think we will feel is how we need to feel to create it. I am wondering if my measurable ‘do’ part of the goal could be to practice that feeling. And the ‘create’ part could be to set up at least 3 dates in the next 30 days. Or more in my control could be to spend 30 minutes each day writing guys (online dating) and taking action in those 30 minutes from that feeling. Is this the right direction? These are things I have already spent a lot of time and focus on, but not consistently. I am not sure what other actions and creation goals could use for this. Any ideas or tips? 🙂