My passion my purpose-SKG

I am really struggling with my purpose. I don’t feel like I am passionate about anything. I have been working on it all month and feel discouraged. My purpose is…I want to be a caring person who loves myself and others well. I am really struggling. Asking myself…what am I not doing that I should be doing?…What could I be doing to love others well? I feel like my purpose doesn’t really matter. What am I doing wrong? What am I missing? Can you please help me and guide me in the direction I need to go? Help me figure out what I’m doing wrong.