My past

No matter what I do I can’t seem to get over my past relationship. I’m married but I think about going back every single day.

Is this normal? I feel like I’m not with the right person but I have a child now, I know I can make this work somehow but I keep thinking about my ex, and how happy I was at that time. My life hasn’t been the same, I moved to a new city to be with my now husband but I was never happy.

How can I use the model to help? The past 3 years of my life I felt like I’ve lost myself. I’m only staying in this relationship because I now have a child. My husband is a great person so I don’t know why I can’t wrap my head around loving him and loving him the way that he deserves. My mind wonders back to the life I had before where everything was balanced, I have never felt this kind of happiness. I left my bf at that time for my now husband and I have feelings of regret.