One of the relationships I’m working on in May is with my business coach.
She has been late for appointments, cancels or reschedules group calls at different times, doesn’t provide a schedule for calls ahead of time.

My thoughts about her are that she’s inconsistent, her life is a mess, she overshares, how am I supposed to be learn to be more consistent when my business coach isn’t, did I make a mistake hiring her?

That leads to not taking her advice or suggestions seriously, not listening to her when she tries to hold me accountable for action items, etc

In a SCS coaching session, we worked out that perhaps she’s the perfect teacher for me right now, because she’s modeling how I DON’T want to behave or be perceived professionally.

And that was a very useful thought and insight – but I still wonder if I should just adjust my thoughts to make this ok, or if I need to take action and say something to her, because after all I’m paying her for a service?