I fell sad and abandoned and in prison in my own house
My husband doesn’t give me the attention I need
He has no recognition for all what I do
He says I am ungrateful
He says I don’t take care of him
He says I don’t take care of the children
While I feel he doesn’t take care of me anymore
And we can’t communicate properly
It’s like we don’t speak the same language

When I do something he doesn’t like, he stops talking to me for 4 months…

I don’t know how to manage this relationship
I feel that I only can be happy when he is happy but I don’t know how to talk to him
I think I haven’t put the limits with him, his family, my children…. now it’s too late
I have to lie to have some time for myself

Please help me