I’m new to scholars and have listened to the overview and how people get to behave however they want. What I need help is with is when other people’s actions or behavior causes a negative effect for me. I think I have manual for strangers to be considerate and I don’t know what to do about it. When people walk their dogs (when we are not home) and let them do their business on my lawn and I have to clean it up. We do not own a dog so I know it is not me but I have to clean it up due to their behavior and how they get to behave how they want …. Another example – yesterday someone double parked and blocked my car in at the restaurant. This caused me to be late from lunch and caused me to get into a little trouble at work. I need help bridging some thoughts to a new model.
C- Stranger double parked and blocked me in. and caused me to be late coming back from lunch
T – what an inconsiderate person
F – frustrated
A- when got back to work had candy to buffer from my frustration
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Thank you.