New responses

Hi Brooke, I am finding new ways to respond with love. A recent situation with a sibling: My sisters daughter wrote a poisonous letter to my sister forbidding my her to ever see her grandchild again. I personally do not know her reasons. However this was upsetting to all concerned. What I want to do it voice what I have learned so far in SCS to handle something like this differently.
1. Understand that people can say and do what they want.
2. We don’t make it mean something about us.
3. Instead of reacting with anger a possible response could have been…. we love you and will be there for you if you need us in the future. We will miss seeing the grandchild grow up and again we love you.
Yes difficult to do. What else could be done?
Brooke I am finding new ways to respond with love.