I am a brand new scholar that joined July 1. I’m trying to dive in & do the model exercises for July. I’ve done them every day, but am not sure I am grasping it. I know I am having trouble distinguishing between Action & Result. Having the Q&A here has been very helpful to reference. Please review mine from Day 6 to see where I have room for improvement. The topic is related to me going to Amy Porterfield’s “Live Experience” weekend event in San Diego. Thank you!
Unintentional:
C: Husband is not going to San Diego with me to enjoy time together after my business event.
T: Our marriage is not in a strong place (We are in couples counseling & not exactly getting along a lot).
F: Disappointed; sad
A: Focused on our relationship issues.
R: Reinforces I have different beliefs than my husband.
Intentional:
C: Husband is not going to San Diego with me to enjoy time together after my business event.
T: I get to focus on me & re-charge!
F: Excited to get to experience the event, meet my business mentors & supportive colleagues, have fun in a beautiful city.
A: Plan the details of my trip, including meeting up with my business friends; make a reservation for the spa!
R: More confidence & increased self-esteem that I am putting myself first & being intentional about my own happiness & needs.
Thank you for already making a resounding impact on me from your first & second Live calls with your marriage advice! I am trying to do better at putting it into action!
Chris Ann