Noisy kids


I have a 6 year old and 3 year old
C – I was getting things, lunch etc in the morning. And my 3 year old constantly meowing
T – I can’t do this. This is stressing me out. He is too noisy. I don’t really know what he wants
F – irritated, frazzled, overwhelmed.
A – not very nicely saying – can you stop doing that
R – me stressed. 3 year old stressed

Really what I want is

C – I was getting things, lunch etc in the morning. And my 3 year old constantly meowing
T – this is where I am still stuck. Going to new thought. Say, this is fun? I will miss this time when kids are small? My kids are cute not annoying?
F – playful, caring
A – kind words and actions to my kids. E.g. oh, my kitty kitty, what does my kitty want?
R – fun times with my kids despite me doing chores

I can watch and be aware that I was getting frazzled. But I was still stuck in the frazzled state.

Thanks