November Homework


Hello coaches, I’d like some help with the November homework with the unintentional model and then intentional model.
A little background, my husband separated from me on September 1st and is right now visiting his new girlfriend. They went to a Halloween party yesterday, he texted me and told me about it and said he would send a photo of him dressed up as a pirate if I wanted to see it. I couldn’t believe he would ask me if I wanted to see him having fun with his new girlfriend, who does that? so I used it for Nov 1st homework but I need help please:

UM
C = husband sends a text message
T = he should not ask me if I want to see photo of him having fun with new girlfriend
F = annoyed, perplexed, baffled (I can’t really decide which one)
A = I tell my friends about it to get reassurance that his text is outrageous
R = ??
I am stuck, what is the result in this model? I am still annoyed, perplexed and baffled, not sure what the result is?

IM
C = husband sends a text message
T = How can he think I want to see a photo of him having fun with his new girlfriend?
F = curious
A = ?
R = ?
Thank you in advance.