Number of likes and followers on social media

Hi! I can’t seem to get past the fact that it doesn’t matter if only a few people like my posts (videos, texts, podcasts, etc.) on social media. I’m really sick of always being affected by the numbers!I know intellectually it’s not what’s important, but I can’t get past feeling sad when I get little to no reaction to my content or when I realize that my online community is not growing as fast as I would like it to be. Would love to stop caring about the numbers … Any thoughts on what could help me? Thanks!