Obsessive compulsive behavoir

Without really being diagnosed as OCB I tend to have this kind of behavior in terms of cleaning my house and kitchen and things having a certain way of being done and belonging in a certain place. It drives my boyfriend crazy and in general I would like to be more layed back and less obsessed. I was wondering were I could read more in SCS to understand my behavior, I thought of urges and urge jars, anything else?