Old Beaus

One thing I am currently working on is finding a life partner. I am what some would call “chronically single” but I really want a husband and a family of my own. Would it be beneficial for my four relationships (May homework) to be the last four men that I dated but no longer speak to on a consistent basis…or should I focus on relationships that are current i.e. ironing out mommy/daddy/sibling issues which are mild but still there?