On having kids

Hello coach!

I cannot decide if I want to have kids. I’m 35 and my boyfriend  said he would like to have a family at some point.
He is often away during the weekend, taking activities alone in the mountains – going on 3 day skiing tours with friends.
Regarding my job, he said he thinks I should give up my career and stay home with the kids.
I really don’t see myself as a stay-at-home mum and communicated that to him.
He said we should just have a family and decide after what is going to happen.
I am often stressed and it would help me to discuss in detail how does he see a family life but somehow he refuses the conversation and says that I am too much into details and that we will have to figure it out later.
What should I do ?