Organizing my home

Hi. I listened to the podcast today and would love to implement the organization ideas … however this has been an area of disagreement between myself and my husband. We have very different ideas about what can be let go and what needs to stay. I hate “stuff” and want it all gone or very neatly organized. He likes to be surrounded by “stuff” and does not care about things being organized at all. How do I get my house the way I want it when I live with someone who literally takes things out of the recycling and donation boxes to “rescue” them? I have resorted to sneaking things out of the house and putting them in the trunk of my car and then pretending I don’t know what happened when he notices they are gone. Some women buy things and sneak them INTO the house, I do it the other way around. Lol. Any suggestions???