Other people’s stuff

I listened to today’s podcast and I am confused about how cleaning my house fits together with thought work (I found this confusing when we did this work last year, too). I am already comfortable with the tidiness of my spaces in my house and I can’t control what the members of my family do with their stuff or their areas. In fact, I have done models with the C line of “other people’s stuff.” My work is to not judge them and not try to change them in this regard. Cleaning does not help me clean up my thoughts, it just helps me have a cleaner home. I can’t yet see the connection to thought work. Help!