Our relationship is what I make it mean – March Progress


MARCH IS SO CRAZY! πŸ™‚

Believing in my new sentence I realized:
The relationship to my parents is just a mental construct in my head.
It’s not defined by what they do or how they act.
I totally get to decide how I want to shape our relationship.
It’s all about how I think about it – thus feel and act.

It feels so weird turning back the pages of our workbook and see that I could not believe in us having this relationship! Not only did it become possible (and me capable) of establishing this kind of relationship – I’m already having and living it!

THANKS FOR THE SUPPORT!

I also think that my relationship with them is a projection of my relationship to myself. If I show up with love and affection towards myself, giving me space, allowing all feelings to be there, it becomes easier to show up with love and affection towards them. Would you agree?