Over drinking Q

Hi Brooke, I am working through relationship with husband. Beginning to feel possibility for changing my attitude towards some of my thoughts about his and my behavior. Then I come up against my anger about his drinking. ‘He’s an adult and can do what he wants ‘ sentence echoes in my ears but does not allay the anger. Is putting a boundary in place appropriate? I modeled it and can’t get past the anger. He loves his wine at night and I feel it destroys good conversation and a loving relationship. He wines it then snores! I voice disappointment and criticism the next day. It all goes nowhere of course. Do I accept, let it go and get on and just deal with my feelings and work on loving him wine and all?