Overspending Follow Up

I wanted to follow up with the questions asked in the previous post on buying a dress – What am I making it mean that I don’t have dresses that fit? I’m making it mean that I am without. That I’ll have to wear something that doesn’t fit me or is too big. And I really don’t want to have to do that. I really want to look nice.

What am I making it mean that I spend more than my husband? That I am selfish and greedy. He should be able to spend the same amount as me. I feel guilty that he “can’t” because I get feelings of scarcity when he wants to buy something. I should just stop spending money since I’m not bringing as much income in as he is.