Overspending – Reasons Follow Up


I want to buy the dress because I don’t want to “be without.”
I want to buy the dress because otherwise “I’ll have to wear something that doesn’t fit.”
I want to buy the dress because “I really want to look nice.”

I don’t want to buy the dress because that means “I am selfish and greedy.”
I don’t want to buy the dress because “I feel guilty that my husband can’t buy something.”
I don’t want to buy the dress because “I’m not bringing as much income in as he is.”

If I don’t like any of these reasons, then do I redecide or find new reasons? What do I want to make it mean? Thanks!