I’m doing some work around my relationship with my 8 year old son. Can you please help me with these models? The results don’t seem to support the thought.

Unintentional Model
C- 8 year old son
T-I can’t trust him
F- Skeptical
A-Question him to the point of interrogation, argue with him
R-He gets upset and mad at me, and I work myself up in anger then feel guilty for my behavior

Intentional Model
C-8 year old son
T-I trust him
F-Peaceful
A-Believe his word and don’t push any further
R-No confrontation, I don’t feel guilty