Partner planning without consulting

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C: While on vacation, partner arranged for us to have coffee with a friend of his without telling me
T: He doesn’t care to get me involved in this decision
A: I don’t talk to partner and I shut down
R: We end up having a crappy day and vacation

C: same
T: I had asked him to do better planning so he thought this would be ok
F: Accepting
A: Encourage him to continue to plan but ask me for my input
R: I will see more activities planned by him in the future