People


I’ve figured out a lot about my own mind and thoughts and feelings and doing a good job with taking responsibility (yay).

I’ve had situations with my family where I have had the chance to practice, to see my unintentional model, and come into an intentional model at the moment. There is a real power to understanding that my sister, for example, is behaving based on her own unintentional model. And it isn’t about me.

Where I’m having difficulty is with people who aren’t doing anything right now (or during the pandemic). They are collecting their social assistance and not doing anything more because if they earn more than $1000 extra they won’t get their social assistance. They say “they want more” but aren’t doing anything.

I can’t let this go and want to be able to.

(CERB is social assistance in Canada during the pandemic)

C – people on CERB who aren’t doing anything and say they want more success in their life but don’t want to do more for fear of losing CERB
T – why are they behaving that way?
F – surprisingly I feel anger
A – freeze in my body
R – I feel awful

Intentional Model

I started with F, and that led to A. I have no idea what the T is.

C – people on CERB who aren’t doing anything and say they want more success in their life but don’t want to do more for fear of losing CERB
T -?
F – I want to feel love, compassion, and care
A – let people be and live my life connecting with all people and particularly people who are actively making a difference in the world and making change.
R – feel fulfilled

Thanks.