I am trying to figure out if I should say what I want in this situation. It is my son’s graduation and my ex and his wife will be there. We are all flying in from out of town. I have the majority of the family (kids, aunts and uncles and friends) coming with us and was planning on hosting a party for my son. I just found out my ex wants to have a dinner at a resturaunt at the same time. (“Tell me the number of guests and I will make the arrangements.”) My preference is to have our party, let them celebrate however they want any other time during the weekend. And, I want to feel love and peace no matter what is happening. The ideal thought, “Hey, whatever will make my son happy, I will do.” And…I don’t want to go to the dinner! Help!!