I love my husband, but I feel like when I married him I wanted to change him because the things I wanted to change about him were the same things I wanted to change in myself. (Isn’t this classic co-dependancy?). Since then I’ve learned that I can only change myself and I have. But my husband is the same and I’m aware of the things about him that I cannot change, and I don’t like those things. How do I reconcile this???