So, here is my question:
Brooke says that if you manage your thoughts and you don’t make your partner responsible for not finding him good enough, or loving him conditionally etc. Then you did your work and if you want to leave you can still leave. But why should we leave then? The “problem” is fixed then. We would love and admire our partner because we did our homework with managing our thoughts. Thanks for a concrete answer. Big big hug debby