“Negative” circumstances
When I write what I thought was a negative circumstance from my life, I find myself crossing it out because I’m instantly seeing it as something that happened, but was really for my good.
For instance :
I had to raise my sons without their father. It was hard at the time and I used to wish that he had more involvement after the divorce but I truly believe they benefited from not being exposed to him.
I was fired from my first job, but I got a much better job soon after.
Should I list those anyway?