Question about changing

Hi Brooke, I am worried that if I truly stick up for myself and stand in my power I will lose my job, my income, my current life. Maybe this wont be so terrible? How does one step into their courage and power when they have set up all of their relationships as the victim? I have taught everyone to treat me like I am power-less. Now I want to find my voice, but I am worried about losing my current life. How can I be sure I can only win from shedding the victim, scared and childlike person I have been for so long?