Question on dare models


Today my dare is to trust my son. I’m not sure I’m doing these models correctly

C- I have a son
T – I am afraid to trust him to be independent because he makes mistakes and I want to be able to prevent them.
F – Fear
A – I restrict his privileges. We fight.
R – He makes mistakes anyway.

New model
C – I have a son
T – I trust my son to make his decisions and take responsibility for those decisions.
F – self-confidence
A – I live my life and let my son live his. He will make mistakes and learn from them.
R – I trust my son to make independent decisions.

I don’t know if this even works as a dare or if I did the model right. Thanks for any help.