R-Line Questions

Should the R-line always be about me? So, not …

A – give someone a gift
R – they say they really liked the gift

And what about when you don’t know the results? Or don’t know them yet? For example, you might not know the results of not eating sugar for some time.

Or what about when there are no results? For example, you send a letter, but there is no reply. Maybe you feel good about sending it, but then that’s another model, right?