I have been with my partner for 3 and half years. He recently let me know he no longer feels attracted to me, but he loves me very deeply, more than he has ever loved anyone in his life before, but feels he needs to be honest with me. He is confused about what he wants, and trying to figure out if he wants to be my boyfriend anymore or just my friend.

I am totally in love with him and do not want to lose him. He has told me he is willing to give the relationship a chance and work on it and try to connect again, to see if he can feel that sexual spark with me again, and that he wants to do whatever he can before walking away.

I feel heartbroken, as I love him very very much. He has been amazing, calling me all the time, more times a day, reassuring me, yet somehow I can’t find peace.

What can I do?