Relationship Drama

I am in this relationship with a man who doesn’t live in the USA. He does not like to talk in the phone, however sometimes he will text and will send pictures about what is he doing or where he is at. I like to talk and check on him and vice versa…Thinking of it makes me feel frustrated sometimes and it feels like it’s draining my energy and emotion…I do want to leave but I don’t know how to do it so I don’t hurt anyone’s feelings, as we’ve known each other for 16 years.